You know, I know it might sound silly, but my ex and I try to be proactive in finding other divorced couples that we really admire. And for some reason, if they are in the public eye, their behavior carries more weight. Which is why we both agree that Bruce Willis and Demi Moore are simply amazing in the way they have created a family life together in the wake of their divorce.

We are not alone in thinking this, of course. Look, they just won an award!

In some ways, I think they are just weird - I mean, he lives too close to her, in my opinion. I don't want my ex in my business that much, especially if I'm going to be dating Ashton Kutcher.

But for the kids? It's great! And the kids are most important. Divorced couples with kids really need to realize that it's not what they want that should come first - it's what their kids want.

To all divorced parents - we are constantly faced with divorces gone WRONG, and divorced parents treating their kids poorly. Take a moment to look around, with your ex, and find other ex-couples that you admire, and what you admire about them. If you couldn't agree to stay together, perhaps you can agree to be friends apart. And your kids will benefit!