Name: abou Gender: Male Age: 47 HOH Score: 85.2

Rate this answer:       (1 votes) RE: Should girls make the first move and if so, how?? OF COURSE, BECAUSE LOVE DOES NOT BELONG TO ONE IN RELATIONSHIP BUT BOTH HEART. SO, I THINK IF GIRLS ARE IN LOVE WITH A GUY SHE SHOUULD NOT FEEL SHY TO LET HIM KNOW.THE ANSWER IS YES OR KNOW AND IF THE GUY IS REALLY A MAN HE WOULD NOTLOSE THAT OPPORTUNITY.

Name: lcalvacca Gender: Female Age: 58 Living In: Seaford HOH Score: 100

Rate this answer:       (2 votes) RE: Should girls make the first move and if so, how?? Definitely! I don't believe that girls should sit around waiting for guys to call. If you like someone, you should take the chance --with the understanding that you might be rejected. Since guys are typically the aggressors, they go through this alot. You really have to get a feel for the person. Some guys that I've approached have loved it and others have not. I get along better with guys who don't have a problem with it; they seem to be more open, less into traditional gender roles which is something I prefer. I think some guys find it extremely flattering when a girl makes the first move, and it takes the pressure off of them for a change. Also, it depends what you mean by "the first move." If you just like the guy and want to go out and get to know him better, you just find something in common, and say, "Hey, do you want to (fill in the blank. (party, movies, bike ride, hike, sports event....) If you mean getting physical then you risk being called a bunch of unfair, sexist names, but if you're willing to chance it, you could try the direct approach, which is "I'm very attracted to you," or "You have beautiful eyes/hands or "You have a sexy voice," and then take it from there. Or you could try approaching a guy the same way that you like to be approached, however that is. The bottom line is that you have to be willing to take a risk. If the feelings aren't mutual, so what? If you don't try, you won't know. Some people will try to discourage you because gender roles are still pretty rigid in this society. Don't listen to them!

Name: AlJCi Gender: Female Age: 23 HOH Score: 100

Rate this answer:       (0 votes) RE: Should girls make the first move and if so, how?? If you mean the first move to ask a guy out- of course, why not. I think guys appreciate the initiation and courage, if you will. My sister started dating her boyfriend by emailing a friend of a friend who she thought was cute from the pictures. He thought this was a really cool thing to do, asked for her number, they went out, and now they have been dating for about a year. I also think it is ok to make the first move on a date to kiss or something, but do make sure that you are getting the right vibe from the guy-dont just take it as obvious that he will definitely want to.

Name: suntoyfull Gender: Male Age: 48 Living In: colorado Springs HOH Score: 60.1

Rate this answer:       (0 votes) RE: Should girls make the first move and if so, how?? I like it when women are approachable and available rather then directly making the first move. Women who are too aggressive in approach whether during first meeting or further along in dating can take some of out of the chase. Making the first move later on in a sexual relationship can be exciting. Every guy is unique about this aspect, but i know that some are turned on by aggressive, take charge women.

Name: chuck82 Gender: Male Age: 52 Living In: Piscataway HOH Score: 100

Rate this answer:       (0 votes) RE: Should girls make the first move and if so, how?? Absolutely. Being asked out by a girl is a great compliment for a guy! The rules of society that say the guy has to do the asking are ridiculous.

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